Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your loved one Mr. Oswald. When a loved one is lost in death the pain becomes unbearable, but do you know God knows your pain? he knows how you feel and so offers us comfort through his word the Bible. 2CORINTHIAN 1:3,4 says, Praise be the God Father of tender mercies who comforts us in all our trials. Then Isaiah 51:12 reads, I myself am the one comforting you. So our God Jehovah will listen to us when we express our grief and pain to him in prayer. We can be sure of God ‘s promise to us at John 5:28 and 29.